Saturday, 27 February 2010

What are you willing to give?

It used to seem simple; the morality of it all. If someone needs help and you can help them, then you do it. But you get older and things get more complicated, the more you learn about the world the less it makes sense. You have more baggage and damages to bring to everything and so does everyone else involved. Suddenly there are more layers to everything. Suddenly, the help you think you're giving can actually just make everything worse. Sometimes what they need is for you to let them go and save themselves. Before they take everything and you're the one that needs saving. Because if that happens will those same people be there to pick up your pieces like you did for them?

But then the danger is that they might just realise that they can do it on their own and they dont need you. If they dont need you around will they want you? It might not be worth the risk.

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